In Memory of Vidya Shankar Tiwari
The late Vidya Tiwari aged about 30 years. Image courtesy Hotel Godwin staff files. |
Something went missing in India recently. The ‘singing’ lift
man was not at his usual post at the Hotel Godwin when I ventured down for
breakfast after a late arrival the previous night. I was not too perturbed as for several months
he had been telling me about a holiday he was planning back to his village in
Uttar Pradesh. Like many of Mumbai’s menial workers, he supported a wife and
extended family back home. I knew most of the facts about his life – he would
always tell me about his hopes and dreams and especially for his son with whom
he shared a single room in one of the higgedly piggedly outer suburbs perched
along the railway line. He was paying his son’s way through a college where the
22 year old was in his final year of becoming a ‘CA’ ( chartered accountant).
You see - already I am writing about him in the past tense!
I first met the singing lift man about ten years ago, soon
after Shelleys Guest House on the sea front shut its doors and I began staying
at the Hotel Godwin. ‘Madam’ the small, neat man with premature silver flecks
in his hair asked me on my first ride up to room 804
(corner-room-breeze-catching-sea-facing) ‘which country?’ and then reassured me
that I came from a ‘very beautiful’ place with of course ‘very fine cricket.’
The following morning the Times of India was duly pushed under my door and thus
began our friendship. ‘You come, I happy’ was the usual greeting as he placed
his hands in front of his chest and bowed. Then he would ask about my family
and always he would tell me ‘you come is like my mother come. I look after you
Madam Carole’ and he did. Most respectfully. He carried my bags, made sure I
had water each day and one day he told me he would sing for me. His eyes lit up
when I responded positively. And so from then on whenever we were in the lift
alone he would stand very still, take a deep breath, close his eyes, place his
hands in ‘Namaste’ and in a beautiful voice would fill the tiny space with
prayerful melody as we shuddered either up or down. Such are the special
moments in life and I knew that my generous tips were used wisely.
View from room 804. Image © Carole Douglas 2010 |
‘He was either pushed or had fallen off the train’ my friend
Mr Singh told me when I returned through Mumbai two weeks later. He had a
clearer version of the story. ‘He was a very careful man so I believe he was
pushed.’ Vidya left work every evening and made his way to Victoria Terminal
where he duly caught the train to his modest home. However, on one awful day in
June, he failed to complete his journey. We do know that the incident happened
at Wadala Station where the line forks and people leap off carriages
and jump the tracks to scramble onto other trains. Mumbai trains are
notoriously crowded, accidents are common and no-one cared to report the
incident. Without any grace at all Vidya’s anonymous torso lay for five days in
a hospital morgue before it was finally identified by his son. Not a dignified
end for a most dignified person.
And so the domino effect begins. What happens to a widow
left grieving in poverty at the other end of the country? What happens to a
young man for whom a father had lined up a better future? Those of you who have
read ‘A fine Balance’ by Rohintin Mistry will understand the domino effect that
occurs when a whim of fate topples those who are struggling to rise above the
mire of mere survival. It stops not at death as it doggedly continues to
break links in the delicate chain of life.
The next time I visit Mumbai on October 5th I aim
to take a healthy contribution towards a young man’s completion of his final
year of study. I aim to set the dominoes upright in this particular game. I
have a meeting arranged with the college who will hold the funds in trust and which
will be overseen by the owner of the Hotel Godwin who has also contributed to
this cause. India wakes the heart and breaks the heart and I am happy to hear
from anyone willing to help with an awakening – accountably, transparently and
most importantly of all - directly. Contact me at caroled@bigpond.net.au